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The Most Dangerous Age to Get Married? It’s Not What You Think. Let’s drop the fluff. Marriage isn’t a fairy tale. It’s a lifelong merger. And timing matters more than people admit. But here’s the cold truth: It’s not just about being young or old. It’s about why you’re doing it— And who you’re doing it with. Let’s break it down: --- 1. Under 25? You Don’t Even Know Who You Are Yet From 18 to 25, your entire worldview is still under construction. – Your beliefs change. – Your goals evolve. – Your standards shift. But marriage? Marriage locks in your current version. And when you grow—and they don’t? You don’t just outgrow clothes. You outgrow connection. That’s why most early marriages feel like prisons by 30. It’s not that they were fake. They were premature. --- 2. Emotional Immaturity = Explosive Divorce Let’s be honest— Most 20-somethings confuse infatuation for compatibility. They think a good sex life equals a strong marriage. Or that prayer and potential can fix a toxic bond. Wrong. What you need is: – Conflict resolution – Self-awareness – Discipline under pressure – Vision under stress And if you haven’t even mastered your own emotions— What makes you think you’re ready to manage someone else’s? --- 3. Marrying Because You “Had To” Will Haunt You Later Some people marry because: – They got pregnant – Their pastor said “it’s time” – Their parents threatened hell – Or they just didn’t want to “live in sin” But forced unions don’t create freedom. They create regret in slow motion. Marriage should be a choice—not a cover-up. If you’re not choosing it with full clarity, You’re signing up for a future you’ll want to escape. --- 4. But Wait Too Long… And the Game Changes Again After 35, something else happens: – People become set in their ways – Emotional flexibility drops – Expectations become concrete – And the dating pool? Shrinks fast Now you’re no longer choosing love— You’re choosing what’s left. And that desperation? It shows. That’s why most late marriages feel more like settlements than soulmates. You’re not falling in love. You’re falling into default. --- 5. Sweet Spot? Between 28 and 32 Why? Because by then: – You’ve failed enough to know what you need – You’ve seen what doesn’t work – You’ve done enough healing (hopefully) – And you still have time to build a legacy You’re not chasing a vibe. You’re vetting for values. This is the window where maturity and market value align. But even that window? Means nothing without purpose. --- 6. Your Purpose Must Decide—Not Your Age Let’s say it plain: If you don’t know why you’re getting married—don’t. Not for: – Age – Fear – Family – Religion – Loneliness And definitely not because “everyone else is doing it.” Marriage is not a soft landing. It’s a permanent construction site. If your foundation is weak, You’ll build a disaster—no matter how old you are. --- 7. Compatibility Over Calendar Ask yourself: – Does this person align with my purpose? – Do they expand my peace—or drain it? – Can we build something that outlives both of us? If the answer is no? Don’t do it. Because divorce isn’t Tinder. You don’t swipe out of that chaos. You pay for it—in court, in therapy, and in broken children. So don’t marry the wrong woman at the “right” age. Marry the right woman when you’re clear enough to lead her. --- Final Word: Marriage Isn’t About Age—It’s About Alignment Yes, age matters. Yes, timing matters. But clarity matters more. If you’re not called to marriage—stay single. If you haven’t healed—stay patient. If she doesn’t align—stay away. Because marriage is not a trend. It’s not a flex. It’s not a “next chapter.” It’s a lifelong mission. And if you pick the wrong partner at the wrong time? You don’t just lose your marriage. You lose your legacy.

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HOW TO BRING OUT THE BEST IN YOUR HUSBAND 1. Make a list of his best qualities Acknowledge your husband's efforts and qualities, making specific compliments about what you appreciate. Recent research shows that one of the best things you can do for marriage is one of the simplest--make a list of all the things you love about your husband. Remind each other to go back to the list every once in a while and spend time remembering why you fell in love with your husband. Share positive anecdotes about his character or accomplishments with others, especially family or friends. 2. Pray for him It is essential that you pray daily for your husband--specific, strategic prayers. What better gift can you give him then to cover him in prayer and Scripture each day? Help your husband be the best person and partner possible by lifting him up to the Lord. 3. Pray before discussions Before approaching you husband to have a serious discussion about your relationship, pray. Ask God to give you a gentle spirit and guide your words. Request that He helps you to maintain respect towards your husband and to be who God needs you to be for your spouse. 4. Respect Him Show him respect in your words and actions. Respect his knowledge, opinions, and decisions: Many men feel like their wives question their knowledge or argue with their decisions. Don't compare him to other men: Comparing your husband to other men can create dissention at home. When you realize that you have offended him, be willing to admit it and sincerely apologize. Don’t let pride jeopardize your relationship with him. Saying “I am sorry” can be a powerful gesture and may help him feel respected by you as well. 5. Give him your undivided attention. If he’s speaking to you, stop getting distracted and look him in the eye when you both are communicating. 6. Speak calmly when addressing a situation (Ephesians 4:15-16) There's no way around it, you're going to have differences as a couple that need to be discussed. 7. Support His Leadership Acknowledge and follow his decisions. Men may need reassurance that they are good, strong, and smart enough. Ask him for his opinion. Whether it’s about big or small decisions, ask him what he thinks about it and listen to him intently. 8. Smile more often Smile more frequently. A smile is a universal expression of happiness. Share the joy with your husband and express your love for him through this simple yet meaningful gesture. 9. Serve Him Like a King Use special plates, cups, and utensils when serving him. 10. Support His Vision Back his goals, whether they involve his business, ministry, or career. 11. Give Him Your Full Attention Listen actively when he speaks; maintain eye contact and show genuine interest. 12. Be Open to Correction Accept feedback gracefully; avoid being stubborn. 13. Praise and Celebrate Him. Acknowledge his accomplishments and express admiration. 14. Protect His Privacy Keep his weaknesses confidential; avoid discussing them with others. 15. Provide Constructive Feedback When offering corrections, do so with love and kindness; never shout, ridicule, or belittle him in private or public. 16. Be Intimate Regularly Maintain a passionate and frequent physical connection. Make love regularly with him and invite him for Love making Watch Out For The Part 2 Titled: HOW TO BRING OUT THE BEST IN YOUR WIFE ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name Kindly share this message with your loved ones 🙏

If we just knew how important it is to be kind, we might speak softer, listen longer, and judge less. Kindness isn’t just about grand gestures, it’s in the small moments: holding the door open, offering a smile, or checking in on someone who’s quiet. These acts ripple outward in ways we may never see. A kind word today might be the reason someone finds strength tomorrow. It’s not about being perfect, but about being present, choosing compassion when it’s easier to turn away.

8 facts about men.. 1. Men will do anything for the woman they love. 2. You're not asking too much, you're asking the wrong man. 3. Hell cheat if he wants to, it's never your fault. 4. You cannot change him. 5. How a man treats you is how he feels about you. 6. They give to receive. 7. What one man cannot do for you, another who values you will do it for you. 8. If he really loves you, his actions will show it. 🌚🌚True or False

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 *Today is the day* Are you excited as I am!!💃💃 *Tickets are $5 and they will be available at the door.* 📅 Date: 14 June 2024 🕐 Time: 1 PM – 4 PM 📍 Venue: Nexus B2C, Batanai Gardens, 1st St. and Jason Moyo, Harare *It's a Ladies only event* 📞 *For Directions & Enquiries* Contact Tapiwa at +263 78 358 2391 *Refreshments will be provided* 💖✨ Can't wait to see you Princess🫠
