The Ayodeji IBILEYE

The Ayodeji IBILEYE

5/25/2025, 6:56:42 PM

The last one is *Chronosystem* The chronosystem refers to the dimension of time and its impact on an individual's development. It encompasses the unique life events, experiences, and transitions that occur over time. The chronosystem highlights the importance of considering the role of time and experience in shaping an individual's development. This shows that humans' experiences over time determine their character and how they respond to issues. *It's about Parenting, Child Development and All of us*🎙️🎙️🎙️🎙️

The Ayodeji IBILEYE

6/2/2025, 4:40:53 PM

*Being Responsible is Different from being Indulgent* Jasper always gets all his demands from his parents and at a point, he stopped going to school, even when he usually wears school uniform, takes his lunch box and also ensures that his daily money for snacks is not missed. But the question everyone was asking is "where does he usually go?". If you say it's a friend's house, indicate with 🫂 If you say he hides around the compound, indicate with 🚶🏼 For I want to know, indicate with 🤷🏼‍♂️ *It's All About Parenting Child Development and All of us*🎙️🎙️🎙️🎙️

The Ayodeji IBILEYE

6/14/2025, 8:54:59 AM

Raising Responsible Children 1. Give your children age-appropriate domestic tasks, even if you have a thousand and one domestic servants at home. It is sheer ignorance to think that doing everything for your children is a mark of honour or a way of bequeathing royalty on them. 2. Teach them to be useful and make their impact felt positively wherever they are found – in the school, place of worship, in another person’s home, etc. 3. Encourage your children to always leave a good impression wherever they go to; teach them to be courteous, respectful, friendly, cheerful and helpful. 4. Teach them good toilet manners – they must know how to keep the toilet neat for the next user, let them know that it is unacceptable to leave the bathroom floor and/or walls messed with soap, foam or any form dirt after bathing. 5. Teach your children the importance of taking good care of their body and their environment; whether they are at home or elsewhere. Remind them that responsible people don’t leave their rooms unkempt or their bed unmade when they get up in the morning; teach them to bath very well and smell fine always. It is unbearable to have a smelly young person around you; let them take care of their armpits, teeth, hair, nail, etc. 6. Teach your children to manage their used clothes and other personal belongings very well, whether in their home or elsewhere. It can be irritating to have dirty clothes or shoes, especially those of a visitor litter every corner of the house. 7. Let them pack their toiletries before leaving home. Your children should not depend on their hosts for their basic toiletries like soap, cream, tooth paste and other essentials. 8. Teach your children to dress well all the time, especially when they are spending time with another family. You probably allow your daughters to dress in bum shots and your sons to walk about with their chest bare in your home, but they may not be safe if they do so in another place. You may not know where a predator would lie in wait for a child. 9. Teach them good table manners; not the one recited in nursery schools rhymes. Teach them to chew with their mouth covered, not to make noise with the cutlery on their teeth, not to talk with their mouth full, etc. 10. Let your children know that washing only their own plates after eating is not a noble idea. 11. Remind your children that jumping into a conversation when adults are talking is a sign of being ill-mannered. Discourage this both in your home and elsewhere. 12. Help your children not to be social birds online and anti-social bugs offline. They should relate well with people around them, much more than they do with virtual folks they meet online. Please, discourage this idea of young people locking themselves in the room hours on end without communicating with anyone in the house – all because they are on phone. 13. Empower your children to uphold your family values wherever they are. But before then, make sure that your family values are credible, empowering, socially and morally beneficial. 14. Teach your children to control their appetite and learn to turn down certain offers, even when such offers come from people they know. And at home, it is not compulsory that they must taste everything they see someone eating. This will help them to take their eyes away from certain things when they are in other people’s home. 15. Always remind your children that they are the window through which the world sees you. If your children’s behavior outside is bad, the general consensus is that they lack home training. And since children are not meant to give themselves home training, it means that you failed as a parent. 16. Finally, make sure your children know God. Salvation is not hereditary; that you are godly or highly spiritual is not a guarantee that your children are saved. You must consciously and deliberately lead them to God My fellow parents, let us try our best to make sure these children represent us well. I am sure you will feel good if you come to your children’s school and people are pointing at you as the parent of the best behaved child in the school. Won’t you? Make sure your hosts and the hosts of your children are always impressed to have you and/or your children around. *It's All About Parenting, Child Development and All of us* 🎙️🎙️🎙️🎙️

The Ayodeji IBILEYE

2/5/2025, 5:25:56 AM

*Self Discovery starts from childhood* Every child has a unique way of learning and solving problems. Insisting that they follow only the "right" way to do something can stifle creativity and confidence. Whether it’s solving a puzzle, drawing a picture, or organising their space, allow them the freedom to experiment. Encouraging creative thinking helps kids develop problem-solving skills, independence, and a love for learning. *It's all about Parenting, Child Development and All of us* 🎙️🎙️🎙️🎙️

The Ayodeji IBILEYE

2/6/2025, 11:38:42 AM

*Seven is the age of responsibility* Cleaning up helps kids become responsible and independent. Whether it's putting away toys, clearing plates, or organising their school bag, they should learn to leave things tidy. Every child must learn these manners by age 7. *It's all about Parenting, Child Development and All of us* 🎙️🎙️🎙️🎙️

The Ayodeji IBILEYE

2/6/2025, 11:42:13 AM

*Parenting is a serious business* Raising well-mannered kids isn’t just about teaching them rules—it’s about shaping kind, respectful, and empathetic individuals. By the time children turn 7, they should have grasped some basic social skills that will help them navigate relationships, school, and life in general. *It's all about Parenting, Child Development and All of us*🎙️🎙️🎙️🎙️

The Ayodeji IBILEYE

2/6/2025, 11:48:00 AM

*Raise a Human not a Beast* Children should understand the power of kind and polite word. Teach them to avoid yelling, name-calling, curses or the use of hurtful languages. Let them know that even when they are angry, they can still express themselves respectfully. Phrases like 'EXCUSE ME', 'I AM SORRY' should be part of their day-to-day vocabulary. *It's all about Parenting, Child Development and All of us* 🎙️🎙️🎙️🎙️

The Ayodeji IBILEYE

2/20/2025, 7:02:04 AM

*How to raise strong willed kids* _Encourage independence, teach respect, set clear boundaries, praise effort, lead by example, guiding them to channel their strong will positively and empathetically._ *It's all about Parenting, Child Development and All of us* 🎙️🎙️🎙️🎙️