The Sunnah Marriage – Inspired by Prophetic love and wisdom.
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"Welcome to The Sunnah Marriage – where we explore love, wisdom, and harmony through the teachings of our beloved Prophet Muhammad ﷺ Marriage is a beautiful journey, and we’re here to share insights, tips, and reminders to help couples build strong, faith-centered relationships. Join us in reviving the beauty of marriage the way it was meant to be – with love, mercy, and Sunnah as our guide. ❤️✨"
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Etiquettes of Nikah : raise be to Allaah. If a man wants to get married, and he has decided to propose to a particular woman, then he may go to her guardian on his own, or with one of his relatives such as his father or brother, or he may delegate someone else to propose marriage on his behalf. The matter is broad in scope, and prevalent customs should be followed. In some countries it is regarded as improper for the suitor to go on his own, so attention should be paid to that. What is prescribed in sharee’ah is for the suitor to see the woman to whom he wants to propose marriage, because of the report narrated by al-Tirmidhi (1087), al-Nasaa’i (3235) and Ibn Maajah (1865) from al-Mugheerah ibn Shu’bah (may Allaah be pleased with him), who proposed to a woman and the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Go and look at her, for that is more likely to create love between you,” i.e., ,or likely to establish lasting love between you. This hadeeth was classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi.
When a man or woman gets married, there’s a natural shift in priorities because your spouse and future children become your main responsibility. That’s what building a new family is all about. But let’s get one thing straight: this doesn’t mean you abandon your parents or forget the people who raised you with love and sacrifice. It simply means you now have a partner to walk through life with someone who deserves your commitment, presence, and loyalty. Marriage is about creating a home, and that takes intentional effort. Prioritizing your spouse doesn’t diminish your love for your parents; it just reflects the growth of your role. It’s not about choosing one over the other it’s about learning to love both in the way they now need to be loved. Balance, maturity, and respect for both roles make all the difference. 🌸
The WORST feeling for a woman is when she tries to have a conversation with a man about his BEHAVIOR that hurts her every day, but instead of listening, he gets ANGRY and turns the situation around on her. It’s a feeling that cuts deep—a mix of frustration, sadness, and emotional abandonment. She gathers the courage to speak up, not to argue, not to attack, but because she loves him and wants to make things better. She speaks from a place of pain and hope, hoping that maybe this time, he will really hear her, that he will understand the weight she’s been silently carrying. But instead of leaning in, he raises his defenses. Instead of acknowledging her feelings, he deflects. He gets loud, or cold, or sarcastic. He shifts the blame onto her, twisting her concerns into accusations against her character, her tone, her timing. Suddenly, the conversation becomes about how she brought it up instead of what she brought up. And just like that, her pain gets buried under his anger. And it’s not just the argument that hurts—it’s the message underneath it all: Your feelings don’t matter. Your pain is inconvenient. Your voice is too much. That moment becomes a silent wound, another scar added to the emotional pile she’s been trying so hard to suppress for the sake of peace. But peace without understanding isn’t peace—it’s silence. It’s pretending. It’s walking on eggshells while slowly losing pieces of herself just to keep things from falling apart. What’s worse is that after enough of these moments, she starts to question herself. “Maybe I am too sensitive.” “Maybe I should just let it go.” “Maybe it’s not a big deal.” But deep down, she knows it is. She knows what respect, empathy, and love should feel like—and this isn’t it. When a woman reaches out to address something that hurts her, it’s a gift. It’s her saying, I still care enough to fix this. It’s a chance for connection, healing, and growth. But when that moment is met with anger or blame, it pushes her further away. Not just emotionally—but spiritually. Because nothing is more damaging to a woman’s spirit than constantly being made to feel wrong for wanting to be treated right.
Love of the wives of the Salaf for their husbands. Umm al-Darda' said: "O Allah, indeed, Abu Darda' proposed to me and married me in this world. O Allah, I now propose him to You, and I ask You to marry me to him in Jannah." Abu Darda' then said to her: "If you desire that, and I'm the first, then do not marry anyone after me." So, when Abu Darda' passed away, she was known for her beauty and charm. Muawiya proposed to her, but she replied, "No, by Allah, I will not marry anyone in this world until, Insha'Allah, I marry Abu Darda' in Jannah." [ Hilyat Al-Awliya' [1/ 224 -225]
*Marriage is half of your deen get married to a righteous spouse*
Shaykh bn Baz (رحمه الله) said: “There is no doubt that marriage is from the most important of all important affairs and from the most virtuous acts of worship.” -His Official Website.
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Wisdom For Muslim Married Women and Single. 1. A First Class degree won't make you a first class wife, rather, your submission and respect will. 2. The woman who respects her husband is the best wife anyone would ever have. 3. Your character and attitude will go a long way in determining whether your husband will wish he never regret getting married to you. 4. To be a great wife, you need more anger management skills than nagging skills. 5. Be a leader at work or anywhere else, but be a companion at home... it's wisdom. 6. Don't compete with your husband, complement him. 7. Your strength is in humility and submission, not in strife and contention. 8. Be tender, every man respect a tender woman but firm. 9. Never punish your husband by starving him of food or sex, he may be forced to get it outside. 10. There is nothing wrong in accepting that you are wrong when you are wrong. 11. Prepare to forgive your husband if he wrongs you. For a forgiving wife is better than a vengeful wife. 12. Make a decision to be a good wife, you will need it in the long run. May Allah ﷲﷻ bless all Muslim women both married and unmarried. Ameen
{ Marrying a Sharp-Tongued Women } 'Umar b. al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) once addressed the people & said: ❝ No man can have anything better after faith than a woman of righteous character, loving & child bearing. And no man can have anything worse after...➊ ➋.....unbelief than a sharp-tongued women of bad character.❞ Al-Targhib wa al-Tarheeb article (1528) by Imam Al-Asbahani.
When a married man communicates secretly with another woman...with hidden intentions, flirtation, or emotional intimacy that crosses boundaries...it is cheating. And no, it’s not just “harmless conversation” or “a little attention on the side.” It’s a betrayal. A betrayal of his vows, his character, and most importantly, of his wife’s heart. Because when a man behaves like that, he’s not only lowering his own self-worth... he’s dragging down hers too. He’s making her feel replaceable, unseen, and disrespected. He’s causing her to question herself—her value, her beauty, her worthiness...when in reality, the problem is him. He’s the one who lacks discipline. He’s the one who lacks respect. He’s the one who isn’t strong enough to honor what he has. And worst of all, other women see that. They watch him break his wife in silence. They begin to think, “I must be better than her if he’s willing to risk it all for me.” Or worse, “She must not be worth much to him if he’s so quick to disrespect her this way.” And that is the ultimate humiliation....a man making a mockery of his wife, not only behind her back, but in front of others. What a lot of men fail to realize is that when you disrespect your wife, you’re teaching the world how to treat her. You’re telling other women she’s not enough. You’re telling them your loyalty is weak. You’re telling them that your commitment is for show, not substance. And in doing so, you’re breaking down the very woman who would’ve stood by you through everything. Real men don’t put their wives in a position to compete with other women. Real men don’t flirt with temptation and call it “harmless fun.” Real men protect their home, their marriage, and their woman’s peace of mind. Because when you truly love someone, you don’t play games with their heart....you protect it like it’s your own...