Hey Carol, I've been dating this guy for 7 months now, and there's something that worries me. In all my previous relationships, we always had access to each other's phones and laptops, but with this guy, it's a hard no! He even gets angry when I mention it. It has nothing to do with snooping, but everything to do with trust. In my previous relationships, it was nothing for me to use my partner's phone to send a WhatsApp message while he was driving, for instance. With this guy, it's not even an option! His phone is out of bounds! Am I being a Skebenga for expecting this and for considering leaving him as a result? Anonymous from Westville. WhatsApp your Voice Notes to 0617929495 and listen live now https://www.ecr.co.za/listen-live/