Good evening, To the 22 year old lady in a relationship with a 27 year old guy! Thank you for sharing your love story. It's admirable how you've supported and helped your boyfriend grow as a person. As you navigate this time, remember that patience is key. Gifts and gestures should come from his heart, not out of obligation and pressure. Since you've already expressed your feelings and initiated a break, wait for his response and use this opportunity to discuss your expectations going forward . This can help you better understand each other's needs. However, be mindful of maintaining a healthy balance in your relationship. Avoid becoming overly controlling, as this can create more harm than good, he maybe as you described but it doesn’t mean he doesn’t think. Wishing you all the best in your journey.