When you’re in love and see a future with someone, marriage and building a life together feel natural, even exciting. Commitment doesn’t seem so scary because it stems from genuine connection. But when love isn’t involved and you’re expected to settle down, everything can feel overwhelming. How do you even decide who’s “the one”? Who’s worth your time and energy? Is it based on their family, their financial status or a picture sent across? It all feels so impersonal and daunting.