*Me : excuse me sir im here to adopt a child* *Sir : ohh how old are you* *Me : 18* *Sir ohh starting young huh.....ok tell me gender and age???* *Me : A girl 👧 16 or 17 years will be good* *Sir : But your 18 Wtf. ....what do you plan on doing👀* *Me in my head :should i tell him that paying lobola is kinda expensive these days 🤕*