HOW TO SHOOT YOUR SHOT AS A LADY BY SIR NICK 🎯Men are not the only ones who should shoot shots, women should too. You will learn how to do that in this post, as a lady. Sometime ago, a lady sent me a message and confessed to me that, there was a brother in their church whom she loves and was crushing on. According to her, she was not always herself whenever she is around this brother. But she didn’t know how to express her feelings to this brother without him seeing her as someone who is desperate or him taking advantage of her so she sent me that message asking me what she should do. Recently, another lady sent me a message with almost the same case. God had revealed a brother to her on two occasions but, the brother wasn't making any move. And several other cases. So I thought it wise to share some tips with ladies on how they can shoot their shots at the brothers God is leading them to , if the brothers are not making any moves towards them. Before I start , take note the following... Firstly, I will like to establish this fact, as a lady there is nothing wrong with crushing on a brother, wanting a brother to be yours, and having feelings for a brother. However, how you go about this matters. Secondly, as a lady it is not your duty to propose to a guy, this is my personal beliefs, that the woman should not hunt , it's a man's job. You don't walk up to a guy and tell him you love him, you do that indirectly. You don't shoot your shot directly but indirectly. That is what I want to show you. So, whether God revealed or is leading you to a brother, or you just want him to notice you and make the move, here's few suggestions I have for you... 📌If God revealed a brother to you, you don't go and tell him that he's your husband, that God said his your husband. That may get you into trouble. Instead tell God to also reveal the same matter to the brother. God is not the author of confusion. 📌Pay attention to your appearance. Up your fashion game. Men are visual beings, they're attracted by what they see. How visible are you in his circle where he is found? Many of you, Some of you are never smiling , You are too tense and serious and sometimes that makes you appear too cold and neither am I saying be too easy , you need to be neither hot nor cold but be warm. Put a smile on your face. It's a sign of welcome. Why are you always frowning? Prayer warrior 🙄. Sis it's not every time you are always wearing boyfriend jeans and cargo pants , some of you your dress sense is not even appealing let me tell you the truth. Get some gowns. Get some heels 👠. Gown and heels 👠 make you look elegant. Another thing is your scent. Abeg buy deodorants, perfumes, rollon, etc., smell nice. Let it not be that after everything has drawn the brother to you, your body odour will na send him away. 🙏🏾 📌Position yourself correctly and strategically. In other words, position yourself where he will see and notice you. How you position yourself matters. You must be visible. As popular as Pepsi and coke are, they're still doing advert. They're just putting their brands on our faces. A man that wants to be a public figure doesn't hide himself in the secret. A lady that wants a guy to notice her must make herself visible. You have been praying for your own Boaz but don't want to do what Ruth did. See what she did here 👇 "Wash, put on perfume, and get dressed in your best clothes. Then go down to the threshing floor, but don’t let him know you are there until he has finished eating and drinking." (Ruth 3:3 NIV) Go and do likewise... How do you position yourself? 👉Sit strategically in the church. I have said it before that your sitting position in the church maybe one of the reasons why that Bro is yet to notice you. If your church allows brothers and sisters to sit together, sit strategically. Leave sisters row alone and go and sit down near Bro or where brothers dey. 👉Pray and join a department in church and serve God genuinely While you're serving God faithfully in your department were noticing you. 👉After service, connect. Don't rush home Go to the brother and ask him about the service, I hope you're blessed. Compliment his dressing, ask to take pictures with him. Use your phone if it has a good camera, collect his WhatsApp number and sent it to him on WhatsApp. 👉If the brother is the type that is active on social media, like, comment and share his content. Engage his content, he will notice you. "This post is for me. God bless you this, Sir. You're a blessings to this generation." 👉Once in a while check up on him. Ask about work, his day, about life. Have you eaten? How was your night? 😁😁 👉Snap fine pictures, especially on Sunday, post them where the Bro go see am and wish us happy Sunday or just a verse of the Scripture with us or some motivational quotes. The leave the rest to God and us. We're seeing it. Praise the Lord These are different ways to show the brother enough green light and he will pick the signal. A guy knows when a lady likes him. These are also how to make yourself visible. P. S: You don't have to do everything here. Pick the one that works for you, the one you're comfortable with. P. S. S: Nobody should use this on me please. I'm not available. 😂🙏 If this is powerful send it to your church youth group , leave a 🔥 if this is wisdom https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaP7MHzKWEL07Ffud802 #loveright #marryright #treatingrelationalissues #buildinghappyhomes #happilyeverafter #relationship #relationshipadvice #relationshipquotes #relationshipgoals #marriage