Dayyuth: His Description and Testimony Hope you All are doing well, I want to remind you that you can use social media but with great generosity You should definitely not post your pictures or videos with or without hijab on social media publicly as you must have read in the hadith that Allah will not look at three people on the Day of Judgment, one of them is the person who is a Dayuth. Dayuth means a person who is not jealous of his Mother,sisters,daughter and wife and who brings his Mother, sisters, daughters and wife in front of other men and does not even feel jealous that some other man is looking at his Mother, sister, daughter and wife. So if you want to see your father, brother or husband in heaven, then do not post your photo or video on social media with or without hijab publicly because by doing so you are putting your father, brother or husband in trouble. If you upload videos of songs which your father, brother or family is not aware of, then you are making them a cause of shame in front of Allah on the Day of Judgment please stop doing such things if you want khair for your Loved one. I don't want to hurt anyone's sentiment I just want to guide you towards the right path which Allah and his massenger shows infront of us I hope that you will not take it as my arrogance or over islamic thoughts, Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala make a boundary for our own benefits we should follow the boundary of Allah and make sure that we are not passing the boundary of Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala for any cost. If you want to upload your pic on social media publicly after reading my msg then it's your choices My job was to show you the right path,which I did, the rest is up to you. If Allah wants,you will get guidance through me. In sha Allah Jealousy is one of the traits that are commendable in a believer, yet it shouldn't be excessive. The two authentic books of Hadith (the Sahihs of Al-Bukhari and Muslim) contain a hadith reported by Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) in which the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said,"Allah gets jealous and the believer as well, and Allah's jealousy is when a believer commits what Allah has forbidden." A pimp or the dayyuth is the man who sees sins (illicit relations) committed by his female relatives yet doesn't become jealous. Being a dayyuth opposes jealousy. It is a lamentable trait and is prohibited according to the Shariah. The Shafi`i and the Hanbali schools view that the testimony of the dayyuth is unacceptable. Dr. Husam al-Din Ibn Musa 'Afana, professor of figh and its principles at Al-Quds University, Palestine,states the following: The word dayyuth was mentioned in a number of hadiths; one of them was narrated by Imam Ahmad in which the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) is reported to have said: "Allah has prohibited three (kinds of) people from entering Paradise: the drunkard, the one who is ungrateful to his parents, and the dayyuth who sees sin committed by his female relatives, yet doesn't become jealous." In another narration, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) is reported to have said, "There are three(kinds of people) who will not enter Paradise and whom Allah will not speak to on the Day of Judgment; the one who is disobedient to his parents, the woman who imitates men and dresses like them, and the dayyuth.” 'Ammar (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said,"Three will never enter Paradise: the dayyuth, the woman who acts like men, and the drunkard." The Companions asked, "0 Allah's Messenger, we know what is meant by the drunkard, but who is the dayyuth?" He (peace and blessings be upon him) said,"Who doesn't care to know who goes to his folk." The Companions added, "Who is the woman that acts like men?" He (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him)said, "She is the one who imitates men." according to the explanation of the hadith reported by Ibn `Amr, dayyuth is the one who allows his female relatives to sin. Ibn Manzur said, "The dayyuth is the one who doesn't feel jealous towards his family.” Further, the eminent scholar `Ali Al-Qari said, "The dayyuth is the one who doesn't object to the indulgence done by any of his household, whether his wife, maid, or relative. This includes adultery or what may lead to it; in addition, this includes drinking and forsaking washing oneself from janabah (state of impurity)." At-Tiby said, "A dayyuth is the one who doesn't feel offended due to the misconduct done by any of his family, doesn't have jealousy, nor impedes them from indulgence.Hence, he approves of the wrongdoings. Conclusively, a dayyuth is the one who doesn't feel.jealous towards his wife or any of his mahram relatives; besides, being a dayyuth is one of the major sins. Al-Jalal Al-Balkiny said, "Being a dayyuth is a major sin and it has immense evil repercussions." All Muslim scholars view the dayyuth wrongdoer. Besides, the Shafi`is and Hanbalis view that the testimony of a dayyuth is unaccepted because he neither prevents nor objects to the wrong done by his wife or any of his family members. It was narrated from Salim bin 'Abdullah that his father said: "The Messenger of Allah salallahu alaihi wasallam said:'There are three at whom Allah will not look on the Day of Resurrection: The one who disobeys his parents, the woman who imitates men in her outward appearance, and the cuckold. And there are three who will not enter Paradise:The one who disobeys his parents, the drunkard, and the one who reminds people of what he has given them."(Hasan). ~Sunnan-An-Nasai 2562 "Nowadays, we see men making videos with their wives, daughters, sisters, and mothers and uploading them on social media just for views, likes, and comments, which the whole world watches. Nowadays, it's common in weddings to see the bride being stared at more by the camera crew than the groom, all just for the sake of pictures. Not just the camera crew, but all the men's eyes are on the bride. In wedding receptions, the bride is seated like a showbiz star. It has become common for men to take their women to parties, gatherings, and other events where there's no concept of modesty or separation between mahram and non-mahram. Men feel pride in this, which is something Allah and His Messenger have forbidden. Are our desires more valuable to us than the commands of Allah and His Messenger? Is money and fame more precious to us than Allah and His Messenger? To become rich and famous overnight, we're putting our sisters and daughters on display. Is this what our faith teaches us? Ask yourself and don't make the women of your household a source of temptation. And women, don't put your men in a difficult position. May Allah guide us all and grant us the ability to follow the right path. Ameen.”