Unleash Marriage & Relationship Dilemmas
February 16, 2025 at 10:40 AM
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And I'm telling you the fact.
The fastest ways to win a man's commitment are:
1) Don't beg him for money.
2) Don't cheat on him, & don't make him suspect you.
3) Learn how to give him his space.
4) Show him how well you respect your father.
5) Make sure your friends areladies he'll be pleased with.
6) stop sexualising yourself on social media.
7) learn how to cook and clean & show it to him.
8) when you go to his house, do not go empty handed.
9) show no sympathy to feminists ideologies.
10) always show him gratitude for the little he does.These things are not hard to practice or apply.
The men of these generation have seen too many negative things about the women of this generation.
And many of them have no choice but to paint you all with the same brush.
If you strive to stand out, he will not believe you atfirst, but if you're consistent with it, he'll start to commit to you.
Even if you have to pretend, pretend.
The more you pretend & see the positive results, the more your pretense becomes the new you.
And you'll suddenly become a changed person.
And you'll even start toadvise your friends on your working formula.
You must have read too many DMs from men & how they were heartbroken and how their trust in women have significantly dropped.
So do not be surprised or discouraged when you meet a man and he acts like he doesn't care about yourefforts.
He'll continue to act weird until one day, he'll sit himself down and reflect on your journey with him.
Men also need marriage just like you do.
But they need it with the right woman.
And when a man finds the right woman, no one will remind him to do the needful.That's how my wife won my commitment.
That's how many other wives won the commitment of their husbands.
You cannot be messing around and blowing up opportunities & hoping that Mr. Right will find you.
And you cannot propose to a man.
Since you know this too well, why don'tyou calm down and put in the work?
You must have seen that on a wedding day, the bride is always the happiest.
Not because the man isn't happy, but he knows that to be a husband and a father is not just a one day affair.
He has taken the bold step and every other failuresin that marriage will be blamed on him.
So he will step up and take the lead from the front.
While you continue to lead him from the back.
And you're now his queen.
Challenge yourselves today.
Tell yourself that "I will make this relationship work & do right by him".You'll not be happy when you cross 30 & you don't even have a man.
Talk more of relationship.
Open your eyes & go for that man that you know has his head properly screwed.
He'll not be perfect.
But if he's 70% okay, he's a good catch.
Tame your greed & win the prize.
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