And this is why I always emphasize on men leading their wives right. Tables can turn in marriage. If you lead your wife right, she'll always portray you as the provider. Even if she has more money than you do. How does it start? It starts from when you're in a relationship.I have said many times, that for those of you in relationship, your girlfriend is not supposed to be the ones paying for dates. And that if you do not have money, she should find ways to assist you without making it look like she's the one paying for the date. She'll buy thingsfor herself, and she'll tell the world that you bought those things for her. She'll support you in doing somethings, and she'll make it look like you did it all by yourself. She doesn't want to take your shine. But she expects you to praise her at the right time. But some ofyou ignorant men do not understand. Instead of you to see the signs, you take it as a norm. And then you begin to think that it's your entitlement. And you mislead the lady that you're dating, until she begins to enable you. And after a while, you start to resent her, becauseshe'll start to feel like it's her role. But deep down, you know that it's not her role. And it's already too late to correct things. Each time you allow a woman spend on you, you most sieze the opportunity to appreciate her, but let her know that what she's doing, is tosupport you. Not that she's doing it as a her role. That way, she will submit to you, and will not see you as a man that is taking undue advantage of her. And when a woman feels that you're not taking undue advantage of her, you'll enjoy her money in peace. This is how someof your fathers survived your mothers. You wonder how your father was able to still be in charge of your home, despite your mother having more money. It's leadership. And it starts from relationship. Instead of you to be crying all over, asking "what do women do with theirmoney?", learn how you can make a woman's money useful to you, without losing your respect in the home. Because like I said... Tables can turn. You must first see yourself as a provider, before you marry your wife. Once you have this mentality ingrained in you, you'll notfeel entitled to your wife's money. And when you don't feel entitled to your wife's money, she'll respect you, even if she's bringing in more money. But many of you single men do not understand. And you'll never understand. Until you become married. That is when you'll learnthat what women say and do, are two different things. Your girlfriend can be telling you today.. "we are one, what I have is what you have" And you will start to believe her. Time will tell. As a married man, you must be ready to forgo many excesses of yours. Before youdrink a drop of water, your family must have drank a cup. That is your calling. It's either you're ready to accept it, or you accept the disrespect that comes with denying the curse. But if you lead your woman right, she'll cover for your shame. And she'll continue to makeyou see yourself as the man that you're supposed to be. As long as you're willing to compromise, and you're not seeing it as your right, but a privilege. And you're appreciative. That a woman went to school like you, does not mean that she's also supposed to provide for you.That she works and you work, does not mean that she's also supposed to provide for you. She can decide to sit at home, to be a stay at home wife. And you will not be able to shame her publicly. But if she decides to open up to the world that she has been the one providingfor you, you know that you're finished correct? You can't even stand the shame and you know it. A man's provison is his shield. And a woman's fidelity is her shield. Marry a woman that can cover your shame. So that you'll not be seen everywhere, crying like a toddler. End.