Uncontrolled and unwarranted attention has lied and fed the egos of so many young women. Especially from social media. When a girl is bored and is looking for a quick way to get validation, she can easily just throw a quick WhatsApp status: "Feeling bored and tired." 30 million niggas and simps will be in her DMs, wagging their tongues, gnashing their teeth, and throwing their shots. "What's it, baby girl?" "Can I come and comfort you?" When you see this, gentlemen, just shut it and mind your own business. You are just a pawn. Social media has created an addiction to validation, one that most women don't even recognize until it’s too late. A simple post, a sultry selfie, or a vague, attention-baiting status can reel in an endless supply of desperate suitors ready to inflate her sense of importance. And so, the cycle continues—dopamine hit after dopamine hit. But the problem with validation is that it is not a currency you can store—it is a drug you constantly need to replenish. The same men who throw admiration at her today will move on to someone younger, fresher, and more enticing tomorrow. The comments that once lit up her screen will slowly dwindle. The messages that once flooded her inbox will be replaced with silence. And when the well of validation runs dry, what next? Many don’t handle this transition well. What follows are low levels of self-esteem, reckless behaviors to seek attention, and extreme validation-seeking mechanisms—like erotic photography, desperate OnlyFans attempts, or simply clinging to toxic relationships just to feel wanted. As men, we have been enablers of this. We have created this monster. We have turned ordinary, mediocre women into goddesses simply because we refuse to control our thirst. We have glorified and uplifted bimbos while ignoring substance and depth. True worth is not measured in Instagram likes, thirsty DMs, or desperate simps trying to shoot their shot. And yet, so many fall into this black hole of validation, only to wake up one day and realize that the attention they built their entire self-worth upon was never truly theirs to keep. So, the question is—how much longer will we keep feeding this illusion?