The Role of Parental Guidance in Shaping a Responsible Youth By KURANGA ABDULMUMEEN Social Worker & Executive Director, Arise Charity for Youth Development Initiative (ACYDI). I am Kuranga Abdulmumeen Olohuntoyin, popularly known as MK or Liberality MK. I am deeply passionate about community service, leadership, and societal development. As a young individual, my focus has always been on contributing positively to my city, state, and nation rather than chasing illusions. Life has tested me in various ways, but through faith, perseverance, and the mercy of Allah, I have overcome numerous challenges. During my toughest moments, I turned to Him for guidance, and He has always shown me the way. I firmly believe that His blessings will continue to multiply in my journey. However, it is unfortunate that many youths today are distracted by materialism, impatience, and misguided desires. The Ilorin community, & many others, is struggling with moral decay, fueled by both parental negligence and the increasing indulgence in unchecked desires. Many young people now acquire expensive items without legitimate means, yet their parents fail to question the source of such wealth. This lack of accountability is alarming. Parents who do not actively monitor their children's activities or ask critical questions about their lifestyle are unknowingly raising individuals who may become a danger to society. The tragic case of Mohammed Bello from Idi-Isin, Ilorin, who murdered Hafsat from Okelele, is a painful reminder of what happens when parental oversight is absent. Such an individual likely exhibited warning signs long before resorting to ritual killing, but perhaps no one paid attention. Raising children requires intentional efforts. The energy of youth is powerful—if misdirected, it can lead to irreversible consequences. Parents must instill discipline, moral values, and societal expectations in their children. Regular conversations, close monitoring, and setting clear boundaries will encourage children to see their parents as trusted guides rather than distant authority figures. Moreover, this concern is not limited to male children alone. Many female youths also fall into destructive paths due to a lack of contentment and moral discipline. The increasing trend of young women engaging in relationships for financial gain, often disregarding the values of self-respect and dignity, is worrisome. When contentment is absent, poor choices follow, leading to deeper societal decay. Conclusion The responsibility of raising morally upright children lies largely with parents. Every parent must be intentional about instilling discipline, guiding their children toward ethical behavior, and ensuring they do not fall into destructive habits. When parents fail in their roles, they risk nurturing individuals who may eventually harm themselves and society at large. It is only through continuous guidance, prayer, and active involvement that we can create a better future for our youth and our nation. Kuranga Abdulmumeen Olohuntoyin Social Worker & Executive Director, Arise Charity for Youth Development Initiative (ACYDI) 📞 +234 810 814 3772