So to fully surrender your relationship to God, you pray about it. Under love from a Godly perspective, know who you are and what God expects from you. Pray about your relationship life and when someone comes along, dont just rush to accept but take it to prayer and make sure it feels right in your spirit. Dont be carried away by the physical. Take time to know each other better, ask the right questions and leave the rest to God. Knowing who you are and what God expects from you is key!