You want to be a high achiever. Don't do these: 1. Don't argue 2. Don't belittle 3. Don't deceive 4. Don't compare 5. Don't complain 6. Don't be zero-sum Do more of these: 1. Be confident 2. Be contrarian 3. Be consistent 4. Act don't react 5. Show don't tell 6. Standout don't compete To reach higher, don’t go low. Set high standards — and surpass them.