HOW DOES DIVORCE START'S Divorce doesn’t start with papers. It starts two years earlier. It’s called quiet quitting your marriage. Here’s how to spot it—and stop it before it’s too late: The signs are subtle. The root causes are ignored. The damage is done in silence. -People don’t just leave their marriage. They drift away. • They stop fighting. • They stop trying. • They stop hoping things will change. They look fine on the outside. Inside? They’re already halfway out the door. -Your partner won’t say, “I’m quietly quitting this marriage.” But they will show it: → Less arguing, but also… less connection → More time on their phone, less time with you → No longer making plans together → More emotional walls, fewer “I love yous” → Talking about the future… without you in it 👉If this feels familiar, pay attention. -Most marriages don’t end with a big blow-up. 👉They end with a slow erosion. Common causes of quiet quitting: 🚨 Unresolved resentment 🚨 Feeling unseen or unappreciated 🚨 Lack of intimacy (emotional & physical) 🚨 Becoming co-parents instead of partners 🚨 One-sided effort 👉When these go unchecked, love doesn’t explode. It evaporates. If you’re the one checking out: → Be honest. Say what’s not working before it’s too late. → Break the cycle. Don’t just wait for things to “get better.” → Decide. Are you in or out? One foot in, one foot out will kill your marriage. Most marriages don’t end because of one big thing. They end because of 10,000 little ones. This isn’t about “saving” a marriage at all costs. It’s about making sure: ✓ If it ends, it’s not from neglect. ✓ If it can be saved, it’s actually fulfilling again. Most couples don’t need more time. They need more 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘺.