*Response* Brotherman I advise you to be open and honest with your wife but consider the timing. Until you're certain the baby is yours through DNA, it might be wise to keep this private. Asi I strongly advise against pressuring the mother into an abortion cz it could also lead to devastating consequences, including loss of life ngozi yacho mozoigona here The damage is already there focus on taking responsibility for your actions. If the baby is indeed yours own up to your mistake apologize to your wife and work towards healing your relationship. honesty and integrity are essential in resolving this situation. Don't create more damage instead choose to do the right thing even if it's difficult