"𝐃𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐡𝐢𝐦 𝐭𝐨 𝐜𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐥 𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲." "𝐇𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐧𝐨 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐨𝐩𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮." "𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐭𝐲." "𝐇𝐞'𝐬 𝐰𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐚𝐩𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐠𝐢𝐳𝐞." With such words, friends often prepare the bride before she enters the "marital wrestling ring," and with these words, they advise her if a dispute arises between her and her opponent... pardon me: her husband! But not every advisor is wise! As the saying goes: A wise enemy is better than a foolish friend! Conversely, the advice of our Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) to you, my sister, is found in the authentic hadith: "Shall I not inform you of the women of Paradise? They are the loving, childbearing, and returning to their husbands, who, if they wrong or are wronged, come until they take their husband's hand and say: By Allah, I will not taste sleep until you are pleased." (Wronged or was wronged) means whether she is in the right or wrong... In either case, she takes the first step, takes his hand, and swears that she will not sleep until he is pleased. The one who gave you this advice (peace be upon him) is the same one who softens the hearts of husbands towards their wives. He knows that when a woman comes to her husband lovingly, turning the page of conflict, his pride breaks, his devil is silenced, his heart softens, and he esteems his wife's gesture, that she came to him even though he was at fault... so he embraces her, they reconcile, and the problem that could have destroyed the house, torn the family apart, and left a lasting wound in their hearts is resolved. Therefore, disregard the "advice" of your friends who urge you to act like a rooster clashing with another rooster to assert your personality! Tell them that my identity and success lie in maintaining my home and winning my husband's heart. 𝐈𝐟 𝐀𝐥𝐥𝐚𝐡 𝐬𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐫𝐞𝐠𝐚𝐫𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞𝐫: "𝐆𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐞𝐯𝐢𝐥 𝐜𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐛𝐞 𝐞𝐪𝐮𝐚𝐥. 𝐑𝐞𝐩𝐞𝐥 [𝐞𝐯𝐢𝐥] 𝐛𝐲 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 [𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐝] 𝐰𝐡𝐢𝐜𝐡 𝐢𝐬 𝐛𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫; 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐮𝐩𝐨𝐧, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨𝐦 𝐛𝐞𝐭𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐢𝐦 𝐢𝐬 𝐞𝐧𝐦𝐢𝐭𝐲 [𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐛𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞] 𝐚𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐝𝐞𝐯𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝." (Surat Fussilat 41:34) Then how much more so with my husband and the father of my children? 📝𝐃𝐫. 𝐄𝐲𝐚𝐝 𝐐𝐮𝐧𝐚𝐢𝐛𝐢 ========================= 𝗥𝗲𝗮𝗱, 𝗦𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗲 & 𝗙𝗼𝗹𝗹𝗼𝘄 𝗨𝘀: 𝑻𝒆𝒍𝒆𝒈𝒓𝒂𝒎 𝑪𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒏𝒆𝒍: t.me/islamicknowledgereminders 𝑾𝒉𝒂𝒕𝒔𝑨𝒑𝒑 𝑪𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒏𝒆𝒍: Whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaESWXU0QeakndIYqZ1Y