For a man is adeptness. For his partner is beauty. Falling in love is basically wishing you can have the other person's qualities for yourself. A man acquires her beauty when she consents. She acquires his adeptness when she gets a copy of him. A man protects his adeptness from being desired by being self-conscious which distorts his execution. His partner protects her beauty by being shy – looking down – which suggests reluctance to consent. Therefore, - the eyes are the windows to consciousness. - the mind is the one that falls in love. - the ' rib' or ' arch' – in abstract sense mentioned in the Bible is a symbolism of free will or rather consent.