you know when you’re wasting your time. you know when something is off. you know when something isn’t in alignment with your highest good. the problem is we still proceed anyway because we thrive in toxic environments. we think healthy and peaceful equates to dull and boredom. a healthy relationship doesn’t mean there isn’t any passion. it means there aren’t any distractions. there’s no unnecessary bullshit or drama in the way helping us avoid our healing. you have to face yourself instead of holding the mirror up for someone else.