*Just Breathe and Do You* Dear Journal, The last time I came on here was Friday, and that’s because I had a very busy weekend. Actually, I’ve realized that my weekends are always busy—especially now that I have more commitments outside the norm. So, I’ve decided to take a break on weekends to be more productive. And that got me thinking… _Why did I start this journal in the first place?_ For those of you just joining me, welcome. I hope you love it here. And please—drop your cute emojis along the way. It helps me know you’re reading, and that keeps me writing. I started this journal because I wanted a safe space—a place to write my thoughts, share my lessons, and just be. My dad always said, “You don’t have to wait for the perfect time to share your experiences. Someone, somewhere, needs what you have to say—right now.” That stuck with me. So, here I am, sharing from where I am. No filter. No waiting until the story is “perfect.” Just real, raw, and unfolding. Because even the smallest lessons matter to someone. Even the simplest experiences can shift perspectives. Beyond that, I’ve always been quiet—laid-back, chill, not one to speak much on things that truly matter to me. I used to think that by staying silent, I could avoid attention or judgment. That if I dimmed my light, maybe people wouldn’t have anything to say about me. But here’s the truth: the only people no one talks about are the dead. And even then, some don’t get to rest in peace. So, in overcoming the fear of being spoken about, I decided to write. To put it out there. To give people something to talk about. But more importantly—to hopefully influence someone for the better. Because the goal isn’t to compete. The goal isn’t to shade. The goal isn’t to be “better” than anyone else. The goal is to live. To love. To inspire. To share what we know and hope it helps someone along the way. So, here’s my reminder to you today: Just breathe. It’s okay to make mistakes. It’s okay to grow out loud. It’s okay to be you—beautifully, unapologetically. Wear your crown with dignity and pride, knowing that you were created for something special. I hope this inspires you to start doing—no matter what people think. Do the right thing. Be you. And own it. Love, _Aby💕_