What does Judges 16:17 mean? God's Spirit has given Samson the power to tear apart lions (Judges 14:5–6), stack up the corpses of enemy soldiers (Judges 15:14–15), and rip city gates out of the ground (Judges 16:3). That physical power does not make Samson wise, nor does it give him emotional strength. Here, he exhausts his ability to resist a woman's manipulation. He loves a woman, Delilah, but does not know she's a paid spy for his enemies (Judges 16:4–6). She's lulled him into a false sense of security (Judges 16:7–16) and begun crying over his supposed lack of love. The struggle to keep his important secret, while under such pressure, has been making Samson deeply soul sick. Intellectually, he knows how foolish it would be to tell anyone how to erase his supernatural strength. Still, as a man, he naturally longs for the woman he loves to give him her full acceptance. He desperately wanted to believe she was fully committed to him. Samson had ignored all the warning signs and common sense that would have kept him from this dangerous state of mind. Now, convinced she's loyal and desperate for her approval, he tells her the secret. In fact, he seems to start from the very beginning. Samson reveals to Delilah what his parents told him about who he truly was. He was set apart by the Lord for a special purpose even before he was born (Judges 13:3–5). Nazirite vows involved many restrictions (Numbers 6:1–21), but the only one explicitly given to Samson was that he must never cut his hair. He tells her the truth she's been trying to wrest from him all along: if his head is shaved, he will be no stronger than any other man.