My husband has a girlfriend. He doesn’t know that I know, but I do. And the thing is, I’m not hurt or angry—or anything, really. If anything, I’m full of admiration for the girl. She’s beautiful and has great fashion sense. I stalk her social media a lot to see what she’s up to. I notice her visiting places I’ve seen on my husband’s phone. She has a photo in front of my husband’s office. She even has a video of herself dancing and singing in my husband’s car. But it doesn’t bother me. My friend thinks I’ve checked out of the marriage emotionally, but I don’t think so. Nothing has changed, after all. I still see him as my husband. I still love him. I play my part as a loving wife. I’m good, and it’s so strange that I feel good about something this serious. Is this normal? Or am I emotionally dead? I want to understand where I am emotionally. ============ That this lady isn't reacting with hellfire and brimstone against her husband's sidechick doesn't mean that she's emotionally detached from her husband or marriage. It's a wise decision she made to accept her husband having a sidechick. Some women go as far as getting a sidechick or second wife for their husbands, especially when they have health challenges. Only women who understand their husbands deeply don't fret or fight over a sidechick. They are favoured by her understanding husband who appreciates the fact that she's not stressing him. I hail you, madam. Long shall you live to enjoy the benefits of living in peace with your husband. View and join our WhatsApp Channel for more interesting stories. https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va5mBOf11ulYBPA6VP3L Like, comment, and share for more articles.