*LET'S LEARN WITH ABU SHEIKH* Re: In 2022, the story of how Rofiat was reportedly killed by her ex-boyfriend and the current boyfriend who are both friends. This ugly incident involved Soliu, Musteqeem, Abd Gafar and Wariz. She had been lured from her house in the evening of Friday to a building where she was beheaded. It is now a trend, girls are being targeted, and these boys come with illicit relationships, and only few have been addressed. It was a sad story that went viral, one day, we were talking about it, a lady walked into the office when this issue was being debated, so she said, 'that Rofiah is a stupid girl, how would she sleep with a boy she just knew, they are just exchanging her like commodity, look at how she was killed like chicken! I saw the tone of her submission, so I said, 'Rofiah's just one of the stupid girls.' She was puzzled, and asked me, are you saying she's not stupid?, I responded, I agreed she's stupid, I am just saying, there are other stupid girls like her, so, we started talking, I asked her if she has a boyfriend, she said, 'yes', have you had sexual intercourse with him, she said, yes now, he is my boyfriend now ..... Have you visited or slept over in his house, she said yes severally, then I put a question, did you inform your parents about visiting or sleeping with this your boyfriend, she said, no now, I cannot tell my parents about it now, even all the boyfriends I dated in the university, I didn't inform my parents, who does that now?" It is an immoral act and sinful before our Creator. My last question, can you differentiate between what is happening between you and your boyfriend, and what happened to Rofiah? There is no difference, Rofiah was just unlucky, it could be you! and like I said, I agree with you, anyone having sexual intercourse without Marriage is a stupid person. Then, she muted! The answer is quite obvious, there are many Rofiahs out there committing the same thing on daily basis, that you have not been killed or used for rituals does not mean you are better than the victim in this story. Having a boyfriend or girlfriend that you sleep with is a sin, but you do not fear Allah like Rofiah, you have taken risk like sleeping over in a man's house, what of if you die in the process, it is a problem for your dead body and for the living. Some started the immoral act from primary or secondary school, the tertiary institutions, hmmm, It is like a home of immorality, infact, if you come out of any higher institution without any form of immorality, you deserve award. It is a place where girls and boys give free sex, while some commercialise their sexual activity, the boys use the girls sexually, they are the cults, involving in cyber crime, alcoholism, among other vices. Later, they will tell us that they are educated, but illiterate, I mean why will you have body counts without marriage? If you have had sex without marriage, you are stupid, just like it was said by the lady, but you have opportunity to stop the act now and make sincere repentance, any boy or girl that demands for sex before marriage is only preparing a place of punishment for you, so he or she is not a friend but enemy. We can stop these ugly stories of how girls are being used or killed, we should all say No to boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, then, there will be no sin, heartbreak, killing and disappointment. Always pay attention to details. Abu Sheikh