*@ Mahatria :*🔴🔴🔴 _*I tell her, "I will be home by eight but land up at nine." This is just an event of a husband ending up late by an hour. The wife process that as, she has been taken for granted. Her mind questions, "Will he do this if it was a meeting with his Chairman?" and it also concludes, "It's time to tell him that I am not a doormat."*_ _*The event is that, I landed up one hour late. But the interpretation of the event by her mind is, I don't respect her. That isn't necessarily the reality. It's only her perception of reality. It is her interpretation of reality. That's what Aldous Huxley meant when he said, "Experience is not what happens to you. It is what you do with what happens to you!!!"*_ _*Wishing you most & more.*_ _*🌹Jai Shree Krishna 🌹*_