Sometimes we see the smiling face and hear the'I am fine' but we forget to check the light in the eyes. We see the strength of the ones hauling ass through their tough times, but we don't know how hard things truly are for them. So if you remember to check the light in their eyes after the 'I'm fine' and it has dimmed, go ahead and ask 'how are you really? I have the time if you wanna let some stuff hit the air The strong ones need it the most.