Oh Shine My Little Light 🕯️ A candle burns brightly, offering light and warmth to everyone around it. But as it does, it slowly melts away until there’s nothing left. Living in agency feels the same—constantly giving, constantly burning, until you’re completely drained. When you prioritize the needs, wants, and expectations of others over your own, you become that candle. Every time you say “yes” at the expense of your wellbeing, every time you silence your inner voice to please others, you lose a little more of yourself. It’s easy to think that being selfless is a virtue—and it is, to a point. But what happens when your giving leaves you empty? What happens when your flame goes out? You’re not helping anyone if you burn yourself down to nothing. Are you giving too much? Are you neglecting your own needs? Protect your flame. Say “no” when you need to. Take care of your flame. You’re allowed to. You need to. You have to !!!