VIRGINS AND MASTURBATION | 🍁 ----- Sexual urge for virgins is strong. What makes it stronger is the novelty, newness, the mystery and the hear says about sex. WHAT IS MASTURBATION? Masturbation is fondling genitals consistently to achieve orgasms. Ladies may stroke their clitoris, while guys rub, massage or caress their penis. I decided to give explicit explanation because some ask what masturbation is. Some ladies especially non-virgins use candles, banana, small bottles, sticks, dildos or whatever that represents a penis. And do solo sex (having sex by oneself). From teenage upward, one will have a strong desire for sex. It's a sure sign we are normal and capable of having and enjoying sex in marriage. In our 20s it will be stronger and intense! One may wake up feeling horny for no single reason. Sometimes (wet dreams), and finally discover he/she is wet. All these are normal, no sin committed. So what then does one do when he/she gets hot and horny? Have sex? The answer is simple. Some masturbate! They give themselves release and pleasure through solo sex while claiming virginity at these same time. IS MASTURBATION RIGHT OR WRONG? Masturbation is completely wrong, and not the way out; 1. Masturbation is not done in isolation. It is done with the image of someone in mind. It can be a lover, an EX, a celebrity, a married person, a crush, someone a person likes but incapable of having. One imagines having sex with them while masturbating. We call it "MENTAL FORNICATION". 2. For ladies, while inserting all manner of objects, one may mistakenly deflower oneself and introduce infection into her genitals and womb. It will be very difficult to convince her future partner that she never had sex with man except objects during her solo sex. 3. One kills his/her ability to enjoy sex in future. Millions of women don't enjoy sex in marriage which leads to sexual frustration, adultery, lesbianism and feminism. If ladies are used to getting orgasm by themselves, she won't be able to get it from her husband. If she is used to objects in her private parts, she won't have feelings for her husband's penis. One will always think of something harder, bigger, longer, larger and completely unrealistic! Mostly, women who complain their husbands' penis as too small didn't marry as virgins. They must have been promiscuous as singles. 4. One will not have a good sex life as a man. He will experience premature ejaculation and his wife won't enjoy him leading to acute sexual frustration in marriage. One needs self control to fully enjoy sex and give his wife maximum sexual pleasure. A woman enjoys sex when the man can go on for at least 7 minutes before ejaculating. And because one is used to instant release from masturbation, he may not be able to go more than a minute before exploding, leaving his wife completely unsatisfied and frustrated. Self control before marriage helps you enjoy sex to the maximum. That is why total virginity pays! 5. Erectile dysfunction when one is with a partner and in a real a life scenario due to dependence on particular porn fantasies. 6. Inability to have or form intimate relationships that are not just sexual but emotional and mental as well. 7. Lethargy to go to work or school due to addictions related problems. 8. If one does not suffer premature ejaculation, one may have serious problem with delayed/retarded ejaculation. A situation where you get erection for several hours without ejaculation or orgasm. What is the benefit of sex without orgasm? Rough masturbation with our hands kills our ability to feel/enjoy sex with our wife. It is hell for a woman to be under a man who thrusts in for hours unable to ejaculate. How will the woman get pregnant? It's the reason some women are seemingly "barren" and can't talk to anybody out of embarrassment. Thrusting hard for so long leaves the woman sore, frustrated and hating sex altogether. One has so much to lose sexually when you masturbate. Abstaining from this degrading act helps you feel relaxed, confident, have normal sexual intercourse and enjoy the pleasures that comes with sex IN MARRIAGE! 9. One starts having sex in the dream with known or unknown person (demonic entities other wise known as spiritual spouse). 10. One feel drained, dirty, empty, useless and powerless after each act. 11. One start getting unsatisfied and wants the real thing. He/she fantasizes more about sex and start longing for the real act. 12. One get a warped view of the opposite sex. One sees them as sexual objects and start having sex with anything in skirt or trousers - he/she become promiscuous. 13. One gets damaged, hurt and broken. 14. One is at risk of hell fire! The wages of sin is death. WHAT THEN SHOULD WE DO WITH SEXUAL URGE? 1. Let's avoid all dirty pictures, pornography videos, pictures and hot, romantic movies - they are powerful sexual triggers! 2. Let's avoid friends who say dirty, lewd and obscene things. Stop all sexy banters with friends and say only things that are pure, holy, needful and helpful. 3. Let's get busy with our life, education and career, there is more to life than sex. 4. Let's transmute our sexual energy: Channel our sexual energy into something great, like education, bible studies, physical exercises and so on and so forth. 5. Study the Word (Psalm 119). When one's mind is filled with the Word, there is no space for the devil and his demons in our hearts. 6. Pray and fellowship always. Christians are supposed to be in Spirit always. It sanctifies us. 7. Let's make friends with godly people. 8. Avoid pornography and romantic movies. 10. Let's give our lives to Christ if we are not born again. He will surely help us out. Masturbation is wrong, bad, demonic, destructive and sinful. Let's avoid it..!!