YOU WERE JUST HER PLACEHOLDER, AND SHE NEVER REALLY WANTED YOU Bro, let me drag you out of your delusion, she never saw you as her first choice. You were just a placeholder. A convenient option. Someone to fill the gap until she found the man she really wanted. That’s why she was never fully invested. That’s why you always felt like you were doing too much while she was doing the bare minimum. That’s why you had to beg for her time, chase her attention, and tolerate her half-hearted effort. Because deep down, she was never truly yours. Women know when they’ve found a man they don’t want to lose. And when that happens, they act accordingly. They fight for his attention. They obsess. They chase. They compete for his time. But you? She knew she could have you anytime. She knew you weren’t going anywhere. She knew she could disrespect you, ignore you, pull back, and you’d still be there, waiting like a loyal dog. A woman will gladly keep a placeholder man around. She will accept your gifts. Your attention. Your effort. She will enjoy the benefits. But she will never truly respect you, because you were never the one she wanted in her soul. You thought being the “good guy” would win her over? You thought consistency would change her mind? Bro, she knew how much you wanted her. And that’s exactly why she didn’t want you. Women desire what they fear losing. If she’s not afraid to lose you, then she never truly valued you. Let this sink in: The moment you pull away, the moment you focus on yourself, the moment you stop making her your mission, that’s when you’ll see the truth. Because if she really wanted you, she will not let you walk away. And if she does? Then you were never in the game to begin with. Get out of your feelings and into your focus. If you disappoint, you must appear before the council of brotherhood and explain why you've decided to disgrace everybody! #girlsapproach