hello adiza,,, ngiphosele umbono lami kundaba yama tombstone mina endaweni yakith ngiwabona e necessary,,, ngale amathuna enziwa ngezigodo ezibolayo nje ngemva kwemnyaka embalwa, kucine kungasakhanyi ukut ingcwaba liqala phi licine phi.... phoke isizukulwana sizabe sizabona njan ukut ukhulu/ugogo walaliswa laphana? sokungatshiyana ke ngokuzuza kwabantu, abanye bangaphelela ekwakheleni ingcwaba ngezitina lesamende, kuth labo abatholayo bathenge le tombstone bafake.... konke nje ngibona angan kwenzelwa ukut ingcwaba lingatshabalali kucine sokuyinhlabathi nje