Dr Bidemi Emmanuel Ekundayo
Dr Bidemi Emmanuel Ekundayo
May 14, 2025 at 06:20 PM
Everyone trades for benefits as it pertains to their desires—this is a quietly powerful truth that governs much of human behavior. Whether consciously or unconsciously, every individual engages in exchanges that they believe will lead to something of value. These exchanges aren’t limited to money or material possessions; they include time, energy, attention, emotions, loyalty, and even silence. A student trades countless hours of study for the benefit of academic success and future opportunities. A worker trades effort and skill for income, security, or social status. Even in relationships, people offer love, support, and presence—hoping to receive connection, affirmation, or a sense of belonging in return. This principle holds even in acts that appear selfless. Many times, what seems like altruism is driven by deeper desires: the need to feel purposeful, to align with one's values, or to fulfill spiritual or emotional convictions. A person may serve others not just for the good of those being helped, but because it brings them joy, peace, or a sense of divine obedience. Even pain, sacrifice, and discomfort can be part of a trade when someone believes the long-term benefit—legacy, fulfillment, or spiritual reward—is worth it. Political ambitions are not exempt from this trade principle. Behind policies, speeches, alliances, and campaigns are calculated exchanges designed to gain influence, power, or public approval. A politician may trade truth for popularity, or compromise values to secure votes or financial backing. Voters, too, participate in this exchange—casting ballots not only for ideals but for personal or communal benefits like economic relief, security, or representation. Even activism, though noble, often stems from a desire to shape the future according to one’s beliefs and interests. Politics, at its core, is a marketplace of desires—wrapped in vision, negotiation, and the constant weighing of perceived gains. However, not all trades are fair or conscious. Some people exchange their peace for approval, their truth for acceptance, or their time for validation—often unaware of the toll it takes. Others are coerced into exchanges they never truly desired, manipulated by fear, pressure, or survival. Still, the underlying principle remains: humans navigate life by offering something in hope of receiving something they value more. The key is to become aware of what we’re trading, why we’re doing it, and whether the benefits truly align with our deepest desires and purpose. https://selar.com/m/bidemi-emmanuel Bidemi Emmanuel

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