If ever you must choose between spending money and letting men help you out, choose men every single time. Money may open doors, but relationships hold the keys to kingdoms. When you spend money, you create transactions; but when you lean into the strength of others, you build interdependence, a cycle of trust, loyalty, and mutual benefit that outlasts any purchase. The man who helps you today is not just a helper; he becomes an ally, a stakeholder in your journey, and a witness to your growth. Never underestimate the power of building with people instead of just paying for things. Favors, loyalty, and trust create bonds that money can’t buy. Your network is your safety net, your launchpad, your shield, and your strategy. Money can run out. Connections, when nurtured, multiply. So when the opportunity arises, choose network building. Choose collaboration over isolation. Choose conversations over transactions. Choose people over price tags. Because in the long game of destiny, it's not just what you know or what you have, it’s who walks with you, who speaks for you in rooms you’re not in, and who is willing to rise because you once gave them a reason to. Build people, and people will build your future. https://selar.com/m/bidemi-emmanuel Bidemi Emmanuel