As expected, we finally fell in love & started dating. So, I immidiately opened up to him & made him understand that I'm a single mom of a 4yr old girl. He told me that, it was OK saying he already knew. I asked how, he said he saw my post the day i celebrated her 4th birthday. At least that really made me feel comfortable & relieved.. we dated online for about a year, still so much in love. He finally proposed & i said "yes" we fixed a date when he'll come down so we start making arrangements for our wedding, He's finally here. It's been close to 3 weeks already, but now he's saying that he's disturbed on the fact that am having a child, that he loves me very much, intense to marry me but doesn't think it'll be possible anymore as he just realized that he can't be with another man's baby mama & that seing my daughter will always remind him that I've been with another man before him. So, he suggests that we give my daughter out for adoption while we get married, travel abroad & start up a new life & family.