*Learned lesson* I had 3 friends who were friends but there were issues with 2 of the friends so they were discussing the other one, how bad he is, he is very selfish and so on. After a while the 2 friends had an issue separated and one of the friend settled their differences with the other one, as expected they started discussing the other one. A few months later the two friends had settled their differences and again.... Mhh, can we learn to keep quiet, those you are discussing with about someone else, they will discuss about you soon and what you said will be used to lengthen the conversation.