> Relationship advice by Baba Lerato♥️🌫️ No woman wants to be mad all the time or be labeled as toxic. Nobody wakes up thinking, I’m going to be difficult today. But here’s the thing....women react based on how you move. The way you treat her, the energy you bring, the respect you show...or don’t show...directly shapes how she feels and behaves. So men, before you start pointing out every little flaw in her, take a hard look in the mirror. Have you really checked yourself? Have you asked if you’re showing up as the man she deserves? Respect isn’t something you demand; it’s something you earn and give back. If you want her respect, start by respecting her fully....her feelings, her boundaries, her dreams, and yes, even her anger when it’s justified. Don’t gaslight her by acting like she’s the problem just because she’s upset. Sometimes she’s mad because you haven’t been the man you promised to be. Sometimes her so-called “toxicity” is just pain from feeling unseen, unheard, or unloved. Men, you have three jobs in this life when it comes to your woman...keep her happy, provide for her, and protect her. Not just physically, but emotionally and mentally too. Show her she’s safe with you, that she can trust you to stand by her side when the world gets heavy. Keep her happy not by buying gifts or grand gestures but by being present, listening, understanding, and valuing her. Provide not just money but a life where she feels secure and supported. Protect her by defending her dignity, standing up for her, and never letting anyone make her feel small. If you do these things....really do them....the world becomes yours because the love and partnership you build will be unshakeable. You don’t have to control her or criticize her to feel powerful. Real power is in showing up, doing your part, and building something solid together. So stop blaming her for what’s wrong in the relationship and start owning your role. Because a woman’s “madness” isn’t the problem....it’s often the symptom of a man not showing up like he should.