The standard in our religion is, "the husband's money is our money, but the wife's money is her money." "....Upon the father is the mothers' provision and their clothing according to what is acceptable...." (Q2:233) All these brothers going into marriage with the mindset of compelling their wives to share financial responsibilities with them, you are inviting problem except you can be a submissive husband. If you want to lead from the front, you should be the one to provide the basic things including salt and matches, not your wife. Till tomorrow, I will give it to brothers practising plural marriage, they are the champs, a brother with three wives and he is providing their needs with help of Allah, indeed when you see any man in polygyny fulfilling his duties religiously, please give it to him, he's not your mate. Pray to Allah to provide for you, do not be searching for sisters that will be helping you to pay bills, because you cannot eat your cake and still have it. Always pay attention to details. Abu Sheikh *For more beneficial write-up. Kindly follow our page, like and invite others too.* ~For WhatsApp~ https://chat.whatsapp.com/FrahD3nDXmFJ6BZR49Z2ls ~For Telegram~ https://t.me/almujaheeddawah ~For Facebook~ https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61572876873801&mibextid=ZbWKwL ~For Instagram~ https://www.instagram.com/almujaheedmatchmaking?igsh=MTB5NGNxamN6NTdnaQ==&utm_source=ig_contact_invite