Any time they talk about the financial responsibilities of the man in marriage, you will see many of the brothers grumbling, nagging and complaining, but change the topic, talk about polygyny and sex in marriage, they will jubilate. But, when the need to marry two, three or four wives is mentioned, they will be smiling, yet many of them dislike roles and responsibilities in the union. I have heard many brothers accusing sisters of being money conscious, this is laughable, Mr Brother, after she has considered your religion, she needs to chew over your pocket. I know many brothers will want to tell us; there was a man that married one wife, he was poor, he was told to marry the second, third and fourth wife, before he became rich, however, we are still looking for the evidence of their claim. They will tell you how a companion got married with a ring as Mahr. The man in the picture was not told to be irresponsible financially in marriage, meaning he did not feed his wife with ring. They will not tell you that a brother that is not capable of fending for his family is advised to be fasting. When you propose marriage to a sister, you are only telling her that you are ready to accept the financial responsibility on her, so she needs to know if you are ready financially or not, or you want to tell her that you own national stadium, and you do not want her to confirm, she has the right to have an idea of what she is going into. Relationship before marriage should be open, no privacy or hidden agenda, let her know from the beginning if she would be able to cope with your financial situations. If she accepts your proposal, good and fine, if she rejects, do not abuse her, the same way you are looking for a niqabite, curvy sister with front and back, that has memorised the whole Qur'an, beautiful with straight legs etc, the same way she needs to state her requests, yet you do not want her to talk about your financial readiness, that is double standard on the part of brothers, the simple rule is, if you want a sophisticated sister, be a polished brother. They know all the verses and hadith that support making wedding economical, but ask them about evidence on spending your wealth on wives, they will tune off, Brother, what can be cheap is wedding, but ask intelligent and religious married Muslims, they will tell you marriage is expensive. Men can get wedded on promise, but they cannot get married on debt, that is the real meaning of, wedding is cheap, but marriage is expensive. Always pay attention to details. Abu Sheikh *For more beneficial write-up. Kindly follow our page, like and invite others too.* ~For WhatsApp~ https://chat.whatsapp.com/FrahD3nDXmFJ6BZR49Z2ls ~For Telegram~ https://t.me/almujaheeddawah ~For Facebook~ https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61572876873801&mibextid=ZbWKwL ~For Instagram~ https://www.instagram.com/almujaheedmatchmaking?igsh=MTB5NGNxamN6NTdnaQ==&utm_source=ig_contact_invite