
Dr Kito Iiyambo
May 27, 2025 at 05:22 AM
PREMARITAL SEX is PARALLEL to STEALING
Have you ever observed the behavior of a thief?
They’re often anxious, shaking, and restless. Their mind races with thoughts of the consequences if caught, imagining scenarios that are anything but pleasant.
They seek out hidden, dark places to commit their act. Before stealing, they glance around nervously, ensuring no one is watching. Every sound alarms them, making them fear exposure.
Their actions are quick and calculated. Once they’ve stolen, they try to cover their tracks, checking to ensure there’s no evidence left behind. They tell no one, terrified of the shame, punishment, or ridicule that exposure might bring.
Even after the act, they can’t enjoy peace of mind. Their happiness is fleeting, especially if they’re caught. Some are apprehended before they even enjoy what they’ve stolen, left with regret and remorse, often blaming external forces for their actions.
Now, compare this to someone engaging in premarital sex.
Premarital sex, like stealing, involves taking something that isn’t yet yours. It’s an act done in secrecy, often accompanied by fear of consequences. People involved don’t discuss it openly with elders or parents. Instead, they hide, fearing judgment and the potential fallout.
The fleeting pleasure is soon overshadowed by the weight of consequences:
An unplanned pregnancy that brings months of discomfort, labor pains, and lifelong responsibilities.
The agony of dealing with sexually transmitted diseases, which linger far longer than the momentary pleasure.
Emotional heartbreaks that take years to mend, leaving one with scars of regret.
A damaged reputation, as whispers and mockery replace respect.
Beyond all these, there’s the spiritual and emotional toll—guilt, brokenness, and a sense of alienation from God. The temporary thrill cannot replace the lasting peace, joy, and fulfillment that come from waiting until the right time.
What is stolen, whether possessions or moments of intimacy, can never bring true happiness or satisfaction. Like stealing, premarital sex offers short-lived gratification but leaves behind regret, pain, and consequences that linger far longer than the act itself.
DON'T steal sex when you can own it and enjoy it with a peace of mind.
Wait till marriage...

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