Dr Bidemi Emmanuel Ekundayo
Dr Bidemi Emmanuel Ekundayo
June 12, 2025 at 06:15 AM
When a person has experienced repeated falls—whether into sin, emotional traps, harmful habits, or cycles of failure, it is easy to be consumed by guilt, shame, or self-pity. But beyond the tears and brokenness lies a call to wisdom. There is immense power in studying the patterns of one’s downfall. It is not enough to mourn the fall; we must analyze it. What triggered it? What were the warning signs? Who or what surrounded the moment of weakness? What time of day, what emotional state, what location, what thought preceded it? These questions are not to invite condemnation but to uncover knowledge. For in understanding the anatomy of your fall, you gain the insight necessary to walk in lasting victory. More profound still is this truth: what seems like a personal struggle is often a communal one. The patterns that trip you up are not isolated. Many others, silently and secretly, wrestle with the same things. And if you are diligent enough to trace the roots of your struggle, you will find that the solutions you discover are not just for you, they are for others. Your wisdom becomes their deliverance. Your healing becomes their hope. Your knowledge becomes a tool for restoring others. This is the beauty of redemptive living: that your past pain can birth another's present freedom. However, it must be clearly stated that knowledge alone does not save. Introspection is vital, but it is insufficient on its own. Many have wept bitterly over their failures. Many have vowed never to return to the same sins, yet did. Tears, while they express sorrow, do not possess the power to transform. The real deliverance from the sin that so easily besets us is not found in human resolve or emotional regret but in the grace of God. This grace does not merely forgive—it empowers. It strengthens the weak, lifts the fallen, and gives the capacity to live above sin. It is not earned, but it is available. And it is in yielding to this grace, rather than relying on our willpower alone, that we find lasting freedom. Therefore, study your patterns, gain understanding, help others, but above all, lean on the grace that helps all men, for it alone saves most surely and most easily. Bidemi Emmanuel
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