Stop romanticizing about having a perfect practising spouse. Marriage is the union of two imperfect humans. Improve yourself, stop dreaming or obsess over the ideal partner but what you want in a partner, try be that person you wanted to have. Learn your responsibilities and roles. You won’t always have someone to wake you for Fajr or read the Qur’an with. That’s your own duty. Build yourself first. Be the kind of person you wish to marry. Marriage is not about someone completing you, it’s about both committing to improve, even when the spark fades. # copied