*STANDARDS EVERY LADY SHOULD HAVE.* 1. Be audacious and confident; your presence should speak before your voice does. 2. Walk with your shoulders high, and smile when necessary. 3. Don’t take sexual jokes or inappropriate advances lightly. Address them. Shut them down. 4. Say what you mean. Speak less. Deliver more. 5. Set clear boundaries, and let people know you for it. 6. Keep quiet when you’re not addressed. You don’t need to insert yourself everywhere. 7. Be ready to walk away. No one is more valuable than your peace, dignity, or purpose. 8. Don’t lower your standards to make others comfortable. Don’t compromise on your values and purity. 9. Protect your time. Not everyone deserves access to you. 10. Let your femininity be powerful, not performative. 11. Build substance behind your beauty. Be productive. Be intellectually and emotionally sound. 12. Choose growth over gossip, healing over attention, and self-respect over validation. 13. Stay spiritually on fire and don't let your light go dim. Dear Lady, you are not just a woman. You are a force. Carry yourself like it. The world respects what you enforce, not just what you endure. These are not just rules; they are standards. Live by them. *_COACH HERBERT ✍️_*