How do you handle the financial imbalances and differences emumhuri between siblings? Kumba kwedu tiri 4 ndini ndinoti shayei. My husband and I we are civil servants we are ok . Tinozongoona hurombo hwedu chete when it’s time to mingle as siblings. Vamwe they want certain things for example last time we did a siblings vacation vaitoda yeku Capetown but I couldn’t afford so we ended up going to Kariba but pama hotels I opted for the cheaper option vakatozondi upgrader, they don’t complain havo but haa it makes me feel so humiliated. Like this weekend it was our turn kutora mama . She visited from kumusha so she was going around seeing her kids . Kwe vamwe she will be driven around being spoiled with dinners and sleeping in her own room , hot baths etc but kana vakuuya kwangu she has to take the kombi kana ndisina fuel kana indrive and she has to sleep ne vana mu spare . I know she is happy to see us , havazviratidze at all , vanobva vatondipa mari . Last night I cried a lot mama prayed for me and hugged me and told me she loved me and that she blesses me etc but mmm I had questions to ask God ! Am the only one anogara ku location and anoroja. Why ndirini ndakaitwawo murombo we mumhuri? Ndini ndega ndinofamba neka mota kadiki vamwe vakapaka hombe , My kids can’t relate when their cousins talk about family vacations 😭😭😭 I just feel like I am the cursed one of the family. I don’t know, please ndisimbiseiwo 😭😭😭