3 SURPRISES THAT CAN HAPPEN IN TIME AFTER MARRIAGE THAT YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT. 1) CHANGE IN APPEARANCE This is why it is advised to marry a Person NOT PRIMARILY for their looks. Marry for a Person's Soul too, not only for their Body. Because looks can become SLIGHTLY altered along the way 6 packs can become 60. Lepka can become Orobo after child birth. Orobo can lose weight and become lepka.. Smooth skin can suddenly develop stretch marks. That High, pointed and Mighty Body Part you so cherish can become Low and Humble. Come what may, come determined and prepared to love him/her Forever. It's a decision. 2) CHANGE IN CAREER "I must marry Nurse" "I must marry Lawyer" I'm sure you know that a person can wake up one day, feel depressed/unfulfilled by their current career path, resign and decide to change career paths. If this happens, be ready and willing to support your Partner in their new pursuit, as long as it's not armed robbery.. Be a supportive Partner. Don't marry someone primarily because of their occupation. Make electronic no shock you. 3) A CALL TO MINISTRY "I will never marry a Pastor" You now marry Usher, God now calls him into ministry after 4 years of Marriage, Aunty, what will you do? Life after Marriage is like a box full of surprises, you can never tell ALL you'll find in it as you unwrap it. Go in with GOD, plenty PRAYERS, a DETERMINATION to make it work no matter what and a FLEXIBLE Heart to accommodate certain changes in your Partner, this will make a whole lot of difference. I wish you a Happy Married Life.