> Let's Forward this Post Everywhere ❕ Never get into a relationship that does not have a label. We call that a situationship. It feels fun at first. No pressure, no rules. But it’s emotional chaos. You act like a couple, you enjoy each other’s company, you tell yourself you’re happy… yet you have no label. And without a label, you have no right to set expectations. The other person feels no need to show up for you. A label is the handshake that sets the terms. Someone who refuses to put a label on the relationship is simply not ready for commitment. A label is not just a word. It’s the bare minimum you need so both of you know what you’re signing up for. When a label is missing, it’s absolutely confusing. You’ll come up with excuses or even gaslight yourself about the missed calls, the hot-and-cold behavior, the mixed signals. You keep telling yourself it’s fine even when it clearly hurts. You end up chasing breadcrumbs of clarity and starving for real connection. Boundaries only exist when there’s a label. Label it or end it. They want the benefits without the commitment. That is emotional freeloading. They skip the label because they don’t want to compromise their time. Real relationships demand effort. If they can’t be there when you need them, the fact that they still refuse to define the relationship is already your answer. Set a clear rule for yourself: have a label after five dates. If they won’t label it, drop it and look for someone who will. We all wish the first person we meet could be the one, but life doesn’t always work that way. Sometimes, you’ll meet five, ten, even twenty different people over the years before you find real partnership. And that’s okay. As long as you grow from each experience, not repeat the same chaos with a different face. Here’s the bottom line: you deserve clarity. Don’t settle below your needs. Train yourself to walk away from anyone you have to beg just to meet your basic emotional needs. Teach yourself that if someone can’t meet your needs, it doesn’t mean you’re asking for too much especially if you know you’re capable of showing up for others the way you’re asking them to show up for you. It just means you know what you need. And that’s not something to be ashamed of. Find someone who is proud to offer what you ask for: a clear, committed label where your needs matter just as much as theirs.Don't go without reacting I beg you. Also follow our new channel 🥹👇 *VIEW & FOLLOW THIS CHANNEL✅️* https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaDeK2e0VycBfd5hso3I *JOIN US VIA GROUP LINK:* https://chat.whatsapp.com/BUYrYcRi7E26PQHOkq4BwH #roadto30k