Hey admin! Kindly post this message in the group I need help (guidance). So I have been dating this guy for like 3yrs now.All was okay but out of nowhere he started acting weird.Many are the times I asked him what was wrong but all he was saying was"everything is okay! am fine".I didn't want toBother him much and decided to just flash it off.As time went by,he started posting "some girl"and each time 1 asked,he always said "she's my best friend".I have a best friend aswell (male)&so I also ignored it.Uhh..ignoring wasn't a good idea the situation started becoming worse (posting).Cutting the long story short.She came by his house and found us(Him & l)Then she left while upset.Unfortunetly she came to tell him she's pregnant as per tests at the clinic.l got home as well but found SMCs and I decided to call back (I was left hopeless after that call, almost running mad).l wasAsked to leave him alone bc his been dating that girl for years and he promised her marriage when they just started dating as he introduced her to his family. However,we parted ways for like 3 months then boom we got back.All was okay forgot about everything...out of nowhere the girl startedTexting me.I told him about it but he said just ignore her which I also did.As time went by she became worse,then I started responding back with sarcasm and it resulted into him stopping to talk to me.After some time I decided to apologize and all was okay again.#this is my main point now.This time around we argue,stay for days or weeks without talking to each other.Dumping and coming back leaving the relationship silently and sometimes announced but still our hearts find ways to loving each other even more than we did previously. Unfortunately,l don't kKnow if it's know or perhaps it's karma? #trust me,he has also tried leaving me "announced and unannounced"but still he gets back. I want to leave him a lone bc(all this isn't normal for me) perhaps his someones father now and he also loves the mother to the child and claims to love me too Help!