Do you realize that one of the reasons most young people struggle is FREEDOM? You don’t realize how much simpler life was when your ‘authoritarian’ parents dictated whom to befriend and what to study. Without those strict rules, you befriended any and everyone, having to learn from scratch, your own rules for who’s safe and who’s dangerous. It’s the same with career and lifestyle design. Problem with learning everything from your own mistakes is that each lesson takes time, a lot of time, plus wear and tear. Some of you have 100 equally clueless friends/followers cheering “You go girl!” Not a single wise person in your corner to say, “Don’t post that”, “Don’t be seen wearing that”, “This career is a dead end, pick something else” You’re losing aura points in ways you don’t recognize. The spirit of the age is patient - waiting to feed on your unhappiness after you might’ve prematurely eliminated your options with what you think freedom is. What will you do about it? — J.O.