THIS HAPPENS IF YOU HAVE TOO MUCH SEX WITH HER (Unintentional sexual access is emotional suicide for men). Lets talk like men. Because many confuse orgasm with victory. Do you think frequent sex means you're in control?. No. You're the one being manipulated. Every time you lay down with her, something happens in your mind that you can't control. You create a bond. You soften yourself. You Start To Tolerate Nonsense. Your manhood? It's leaving. Your Emotional Balance? Kidnapped. Your purpose ? Now compete with her body. She don't need witchcraft. Sex is the spell. It gets in your head without touching your brain. Start living rent free in your thoughts. You wake up thinking about her. You sleep wanting her. You obey her just to maintain access. You think you are in a relationship. But really, you're trapped. You're trading your self-esteem in exchange for physical pleasure. You tolerate disrespect because "you don't want to start over." You hold on to her out of fear, not out of love. The more sex you have, the more you get emotionally engaged. Ignore the warning signs.. Excuse your bad behavior. You start asking Him for guidance instead of leading her. And guess what? She notices it. And you lose respect. Because no woman respects a man she controls with her body. You've gone from being her protector to her puppet. From being her King to being her slave. From a man with a mission to a man with a mattress. Some of y'all are in relationships that only exist because of sex. They don’t even like his personality. They don't trust their character. They don't see a future with her. But the sex? You've been mesmerized. You're now trapped in a cycle of emotional suicide. Let's be clear, sex isn't bad. But sex without a purpose is dangerous. If she's not your wife or part of your long term vision, you are not "winning", you are wasting. Wasting time. Wasting of energy. Wasting away destiny. Discipline is the true key. Any man can persecute women. But it takes a real KING to give up good sex for a better future. Control your appetite, or your appetite will control you. Choose the purpose. Not the pleasure. Choose power. Not the puppets. Choose your mission. Not his mattress. Because the more sex you have with her, the more power she will have to destroy you. And by the time you realize... She's already taking your mind, your energy and your potential. Taken from the net.