“What about loyalty and appreciation?” Umar Ibn Al-Khattab (R.A) said to a man who was thinking of divorcing his wife: “Why do you want to divorce her?” He said, “I do not love her.” ‘Umar said, “Must every house be built on love? What about loyalty and appreciation?” [Al-Bayan wa at-Tabayeen, 2/101] Hazrat Umar ibn al-Khattab (R.A) was telling this to a man who wanted to leave his wife of 45 years because she had become old and he did not feel anything for her. So Hazrat Umar ibn al-Khattab (R.A) Was reminding her about all the years she spent with him lost her youth and beauty in raising his children csring for his house and him.