*منشورات الداء والدواء* 9️⃣0️⃣ 🟠 *_Evaluate Your Position Regarding Social Media_* 🟠 🖇️ *Among the harms of social media:* 🟠 *From a material perspective:* *Look today at:* ◻️ The pressure parents face from their children, ◻️ The pressure husbands face from their wives for things like coffee — the coffee that people used to buy for twenty or fifteen riyals, and it would last a month; ⬅️ Now, with the media industry’s influence, coffee requires the husband and wife to go out once or twice a week to get a cup of coffee costing 37, 18, 17 riyals. 🖇️ This has led to financial bleeding due to exposure to these programs. ◼️ Children press their parents, demanding to see or buy things they saw. 🖇️ It's very difficult for the father to refuse every time, 🖇️ Leading to pressure on parents due to what they see on social media. 📢 *I mention all this to encourage:* ◼️ People to moderate their gaze and vision; 🖇️ Therefore, understand your position regarding this. 🟠 *Also, the destruction of homes:* ```It is evident that divorce rates have significantly increased with the rise of these programs.``` ⁉️ *Why?* ⬅️ *_Due to comparisons_* — ◼️ Husbands compare their wives to what they see and find no similarity, 🖇️ Which leads to dissatisfaction with their wives, ◼️ Likewise, wives see their husbands' financial status, lifestyle, etc. 🟠 *Recent phenomena:* A man features in all his videos with his wife! No dignity, no honor, no privacy; ⁉️ *Why?* He promotes his content with his wife's body, 🖇️ Leading young women to believe every husband should be like this, 🖇️ Taking her every day from country to country, restaurant to restaurant, café to café — distorting perceptions and destroying homes; 🖇️ *Hence, the rise in divorces and separations.* 🟠 *Another harm of social media:* It has elevated those unworthy of being in leadership positions! 🖇️ *Story and Lesson:* A woman in Egypt was divorced seven times and is now a consultant for women on social media!! 🖇️ Divorced seven times, 🖇️ She failed in seven marriages!! Let’s assume men are bad; shouldn’t she succeed in at least one of those seven marriages if she’s a consultant for women? 🚫 Don't ask about the level of destruction this woman caused in Egyptian society, 🚫 This phenomenon exists in all countries. 🖇️ *Therefore, this leads one to lower their gaze:* ◼️ Lower your gaze from the haram, ◼️ And moderate your gaze in permissible matters and understand what you are looking at. 💬 Al-Tirmidhi reports from Aun bin Abdullah that he said: _“I associated with the rich and found no one more distressed than me; I saw a beast better than my beast and a garment better than my garment; then I associated with the poor and found rest.”_ 📢 *No matter how:* ◼️ Content you are, ◻️ Strong your character, ◼️ Firm your belief in fate, 🖇️ *Believe me:* ◻️ The repeated gazes, ◻️ The continuous exposure to clips, ◻️ Spending four hours on Snapchat, ◻️ On Instagram before sleeping, after waking, at the table, on a trip, while driving, 🖇️ Will affect you no matter what; The soul by nature compares; 🖇️ If it sees something, it compares with its own state, ⬅️ *This is a major cause of many psychological issues people face today due to this,* ⬅️ And what they see on these screens; 🖇️ Therefore, one should not spend all their time on these programs. > Majlis Addau Waddawa *Shaykh Sami Hawsawi Hafidahullah* 🖇️ https://t.me/shykhsami 🖇️ https://shorturl.at/fMuwc