🔹 *Early Divorce and the Rise in Khula* *A Silent Bleeding That Threatens the Stability of Society* ▪️In every home that falls apart just months after marriage, there’s a painful story that doesn’t end with the signing of divorce papers, in fact, it begins there. ▪️A marriage that was built on emotions, not on insight; on social pressure, not on responsibility. It ended quickly — leaving behind two wounded hearts, and may be a child caught between two parents who are constantly in conflict… ▪️And society? It bears the consequences in the form of behavioral issues, fear of commitment, and a breakdown in family values. 📌 *Divorce is no longer just a last resort* ▫️Khula and divorce have become easy options at the very first disagreement. ▫️And some people have begun to lose patience — not realizing that marriage is a journey of partnership, not a stop for comfort and luxury. ▫️And with the absence of awareness, emotional readiness, and proper Islamic preparation — these experiences turn into emotional and social wreckage that leaves its mark on the entire family and society. 🔸 *The responsibility of parents is not secondary* ❓ `Where are the parents?` *How many marriages were held just because the parents rushed into it?* ▪️And how many divorces happened because a mother whispered to her daughter, “Ask for khula!”, or a father told his son, “You’re a man, don’t tolerate this!”? ▪️Marriage is not a private deal — it is a project of the ummah. It starts from the home, and it collapses from the home. ▪️When guidance is absent and emotions are given priority over reason, girls are thrown into marriages they can’t fully understand, and boys are pushed into decisions beyond their capacity. ▪️And then we wonder — why is divorce easier than patience, and khula quicker than communication? 🚸 *And the consequences?* ▪️-Children torn between two parents united only in courtrooms. ▪️-Young men are afraid of getting married — fearing a quick failure. ▪️-Young women, divorced in the prime of their youth — facing judgmental eyes and societal cruelty. ▪️-Immature relationships rising as a substitute for proper nikah — feeding moral decline. 💡 *The solution starts with awareness* ▫️-Preparing children for marriage is just as important as preparing them for school or work. ▫️-Fix whatever can be fixed before even thinking about separation. ▫️-Spreading the culture of patience, understanding, and dialogue — instead of the mindset of “the door is wide enough for a camel to walk out.” ▫️-Activating the role of parents as guides, not instigators — as nurturers, not silent observers. --- 🔖 *In conclusion:* 🔸Not every divorce is oppression, and not every khula is mistake... 🔸But when they become a widespread trend — then we are in need of serious reflection before families turn to ashes, and family stability becomes a distant, unreachable dream. 📌 *Let’s raise our children with maturity, not haste — with the aim of building homes, not breaking them.* _Because a strong society… starts with a stable family, not a fleeting relationship._ ✍🏻 Shaykh Sami Hawsawi hafidahullah 🖇️ https://t.me/shykhsami 🖇️https://shorturl.at/fMuwc